Fights are complicated creatures. At what point is a fight too serious. More importantly, at what point is a fight actually an expression of an emotional disconnect rather than the need for attention. When someone raises their voice, are they trying to drown your voice, or instead pointing to the fact that you barely listento them.
And sometimes a fight is the only respite from a spell of indifference. It is the only way to experience intensity on some occassions.
Yes, we fight for diferent reasons. Fights are temporary but it’s worth wondering if the reasons for fighting are not as temporary.
PS – Post was inspired by the fact that I heard a couple fight on the bus for a full and filthy loud twenty minutes.